eye movement desensitization & reprocessing (EMDR)
trauma is not what happens to you. it is what happens inside you as a result of what happened to you.
- Gabor MatE
What Is EMDR?
Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) is a research-supported, trauma-focused psychotherapy designed to help the brain process and integrate distressing or overwhelming experiences.
When something painful, frightening, or destabilizing happens, especially if it occurs during a vulnerable time, the nervous system can store that experience in a fragmented way. Even years later, your body may respond as if the event is still happening. This can show up as anxiety, panic, emotional shutdown, reactivity, perfectionism, people-pleasing, or feeling chronically “on edge.”
EMDR helps the brain reprocess these stored memories so they no longer carry the same emotional charge. The goal is not to erase what happened, but to allow it to feel resolved rather than activated.
You do not have to relive trauma in detail for EMDR to be effective.
What Happens During EMDR?
EMDR is a structured and collaborative process.
We begin with careful preparation. You’ll develop grounding skills and internal resources so you feel steady and supported before processing begins.
During reprocessing, you’ll briefly bring to mind a distressing memory while engaging in bilateral stimulation (such as guided eye movements or tapping). This process helps your brain integrate the experience in a way that reduces emotional intensity and shifts limiting beliefs.
Over time, clients often notice:
Reduced emotional reactivity
Fewer intrusive thoughts or body-based triggers
Greater self-trust and confidence
Relief from shame, guilt, or self-blame
Increased calm in high-pressure environments
We move at your pace. You remain in control throughout the process.
What Can EMDR Help With?
EMDR is widely known for treating PTSD, but it is also highly effective for:
Anxiety and panic
Performance pressure and chronic stress
Emotional shutdown or numbness
Relational trauma and attachment wounds
Childhood adversity
Medical trauma or accidents
Grief and loss
Cultural, family, or identity-based stress
Perfectionism rooted in earlier experiences
Often, the symptoms clients struggle with today are connected to experiences that are no longer happening — but are still living in the nervous system.
EMDR helps resolve the roots, not just manage the symptoms.
Is EMDR Effective According to Research?
Yes. EMDR is endorsed by major health organizations worldwide, including:
The World Health Organization (WHO)
The American Psychological Association (APA)
The U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs
Research consistently shows EMDR to be highly effective for trauma-related conditions, often producing meaningful improvement in fewer sessions than traditional talk therapy alone.
Many clients report that EMDR feels different from other therapies — less about analyzing and more about allowing the brain to naturally heal once given the right conditions.
How Can EMDR Change You Over Time?
When EMDR is done thoughtfully and consistently, clients often experience shifts such as:
Moving from “I’m not enough” to “I am capable.”
Moving from hypervigilance to steadiness.
Moving from survival mode to intentional living.
Feeling less controlled by the past.
Responding to stress with clarity instead of panic.
EMDR does not remove pain from your story. It helps transform your relationship to it.
For high-achieving professionals and individuals carrying invisible burdens, this can mean showing up in leadership, relationships, and life with greater emotional freedom rather than constant internal pressure.

